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hottest scam of 2010 is on Chemistry.com dating service tell all your single friends of any age!

Romance Scams QuizYesNoHave you been on a dating or social network site in the past 6 monthsHas someone fallen in love with you quicklyDo they immediately want to leave the dating site to use IM or emailDo they claim to be from the US but working overseas; Nigeria or UKHas someone asked you for money or to cash a checkAre they coming to visit you soon but a event prevents them from visitingThey have no close family or friend or business associates to turn to
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They Might be a Scammer If…

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Email sent by Scammer to Dating Site Member

Let me tell you something about myself:
My full name is JIM T. WATKINS. I was born in Northern Wisconsin in October 1ST 1957, but i was brought up in Indonesia. i grew up in Indonesia, i graduated from University of Indonesia. Jakarta. My father was a gold merchant and had Merchants , company and Trade in West Coast of Sumatra, Indonesia.The 2003 Tsunami earthquake attack that took a life of thousand of people also took the life of my entire family. i and my son was very lucky that we were here in US for holiday.

I decided to move finally to US since 3years ago..I have a residence in both California, US and here in B.A...i have been living in North Vancouver for a year now....but i do go to US once or twice in a Month, that's my second home now...i have also decided to settle down and get married. i want to start a new life and move on... i'm now planing to establish gold company and trade in B.A...the most important thing in my life now is to get a wife who will be my partner, who will be by my side and support each other. i believe two heads are better than one. we can do so many things together. we can reasons together...travel together, sing together, cook together, sleep together, bath together, eat together, kiss together and also make love together....LOL!
Take care and have a wonderful day...JIM
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If answered YES to more than three of these on the quiz or below you have a Scammer.
When Contact is First Made
  • They immediately want to get off the website and onto Yahoo IM or MSN IM
  • Their profile seems to disappear off the website immediately after conversation begins
  • They claim it was destiny or fate and you are meant to be together
  • They immediately ask for your picture and they send you a picture of themselves
  • They immediately want your address so as to send you flowers, candy, and teddy bears, often purchased with stolen credit cards
  • They claim to love you either immediately or within 24-48 hours
  • They immediately start using pet names with you:  hon/hun  baby/babe  sweety/sweetie
  • They claim God brought you to him/her
  • They typically claim to be from the US (or your local region) but they are overseas, or going overseas mainly to Nigeria, sometimes the UK for business or family matters
Communication Skills
  • Their spelling is atrocious
  • Their grammar is not consistent with how Americans speak, French speak etc.
  • They appear uneducated with their speaking/writing skills
  • They over-use emotions
  • They are notorious for using BUZZ
  • They are notorious for using “i” instead of “I”
  • They consistently use webspeak or abbreviations; u  r  ur  cos  pls/plz  ma  sry  brb  div  
  • They often mix up their phrases: “i” will like to heer from you soonest, I am kool, Do you have any man you care to meet, Do you have any man you planning to meet, Looking for someone to love and care for in life, Am cheerfull in life, I will like to meet someone that is careing and loveing for real in life, “i” am too young for my age if you don’t know, Ok so how will you feel if i says i dont mind you, i will like you to be my best friend, You are so pretty for my likeness
  • They misunderstand our slang or comparisons such as night owl/early bird, poker face
Their Habits
  • They are not usually around on the weekends to IM
  • They IM at unusual hours for your time zone
  • There are times they are gone from the conversation for a length of time and will sometimes come back at you with a different name, they’re usually conversing with more than one person at a time
  • If you ask them a question they don’t know they will usually be offline for a length of time so they can go look up the answer on the internet always claiming they had a phone call or had to go to the bathroom etc.
  • They like to send you poems or love letters, most of which can be traced back to lovingyou.com. Sometimes they even forget to change the name in the poem or letter to match your name
  • They send you flowers, teddy bears, and candy within the first few weeks of talking
  • They typically ask you to get on your web cam yet they never seem to have a web cam of their own
  • They ask for your phone number but when they call you can barely understand a word they say because of their accent and back ground noise
  • They may give you a phone number but it’s typically a calling card or a call center, you can rarely get them on the phone
  • They do not like to answer personal questions about themselves and tend to ignore questions
  • They often do not know the correct time difference between where you are and where they claim to be
  • They often claim to have one parent that is of African descent
  • A majority of them claim to have lost a spouse/child/parent in a horrific traffic accident or airplane accident or any of the above are sick or in the hospital
  • They have no close family or friend or business associates to turn to, even the US embassy, instead they can only rely on a stranger they picked off the internet
  • To them love equals financial assistance…if you do not send them money or help them out with what they ask, you do not love them
  • If you deny them or question them they become verbally abusive and will resort to threats
  • They will insist you keep the relationship a secret until “they” come to you live with you
  • Above all, if you call them a Scammer they are highly offended and some will start throwing words at you in their native language
Their Inconsistencies
  • The details they give you on IM are often different that what was stated on their profiles, one of the more common ones they give different answers to is their birth date, height/weight, and age etc.
  • If you catch them on an inconsistency they will claim a friend or relative must’ve been using their id to chat with you, they will always try to come up with a cover-up and of course, you are always wrong or mistaken
  • They often misspell the cities/towns they claim they are from and are unfamiliar with any of the local landmarks and attractions
  • They do not know common questions that every US citizen would know the answer to

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Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Coach Bart’’ McInerney trial news 2010


Two more witnesses tell of sexual talk with former St. Rose coach

By CHARLES WEBSTER
STAFF WRITER

A former St. Rose High School baseball coach advised one of his players to go home and measure his penis and report back the number, the former player identified in court as Victim No. 5 told jurors today.
He also testified that his coach advised him to use condoms when masturbating and invited the boy to bring a used condom to him.

”I thought it was the strangest (request) yet,’’ he said in court.

Bartholomew ”Coach Bart’’ McInerney, 43, of Spring Lake Heights, a well-known, well-liked, longtime baseball coach at St. Rose High School in Belmar, is standing trial on 12 counts of endangering the welfare of a child, involving sexually explicit conversations about masturbation and other topics he allegedly had with a dozen boys between the ages of 15 and 17 from 2001 to November 2007, when he was arrested. All but one of the boys was a player on McInerney’s St. Rose baseball teams. The parents of a 13th boy believe their son was too a victim and committed suicide over the scandal.

Victim No. 5 said he took a used condom to his coach inside an envelope. He said McInerney then held the condom up and explained the semen inside was what was going to get the boy in trouble. The victim said McInerney then disposed of the item.

Under cross-examination from defense attorney Charles Uliano, the former player said McInerney spoke to him about semen volume and what was normal for a boy his age.

He also testified McInerney gave him a video camera to videotape himself masturbating and his facial expressions while performing the act. The boy said McInerney put the camera in a brown paper bag and handed it to him, but he never used the camera. Later, when McInerney asked him about the video camera the boy told him he had done what his coach suggested, and they destroyed the tape together.

Another witness, dubbed Victim No. 2, also took the witness stand today. He was not a player on McInerney’s team, but played on his brother Tim McInerney’s soccer team at St. Rose.

That boy said Bart McInerney brought up masturbation and the boy’s sexual activity during a two-hour drive to Brick from Belmar. He said he was ”pretty taken aback’’ and ”extremely uncomfortable’’ with the conversation.

”It seemed like he really wanted to know the answers and find out what I had to say,’’ he told the jurors.

Assistant Monmouth County Prosecutor Peter Boser asked the boy if Tim Mcinerney ever did anything wrong to him.

”Absolutely not,’’ he shot back.

"Did you feel confident to tell Tim about the conversations?’’ Boser followed up.

”I couldn’t. I felt he would have been crushed. I would have lost a friend, and he wouldn’t believe me,’’ Victim No. 2 said.

Boser also asked why he didn’t tell another adult about the conversation and subsequent conversations with Bart McInerney.

”He was an authority figure and a coach at school – his brother was my soccer coach. I figured it was a good idea to keep my mouth shut and get through this awkward situation,’’ the witness said.

He also told jurors how Bart McInerney paid his way on a trip to North Carolina, with several other boys from the school supervised only by the coach, and attended other outings to baseball games in Boston and a baseball team trip to Hawaii.

Monday, January 11, 2010

Jersey Shore shots shots shots



Kristin Cavallari is a little upset she’s been replaced as the hottest reality show star on MTV. She’s even confessed her woes!

At her 23rd birthday party at the Vegas location of Beso over the weekend, Kristin told Us Weekly, "I'm not going to lie, I'm kind of jealous.”

We understand why Kristin is worried—Jersey Shore’s January 7th had its highest ratings ever with more than 3.2 million viewers. Subsequently,

The Hills ratings have dropped significantly: 1.72 million viewers tuned in to the October season 5 finale; 2.6 million viewers watched the season 4 finale.

Kristin even has a favorite character: "The Situation," she said. "I mean, come on, right?"

So would Kristin actually date a guido? "Maybe, if I liked him," she continued. "I mean, if I was attracted to him, absolutely."

Well, we can’t say we’re all surprised…she did date Justin Bobby for a minute! Maybe Snooki would agree to a guest star at the beach house for the weekend! 

Jersey SHore Snookie is making some cash

Being a guidette is a full time job -- and for "Jersey Shore's" Snooki, it pays five figures.

TMZ has learned the Princess of Poughkeepsie is getting paid $10,000 to show up tonight to Anna Nicole Smith's death site, the Seminole Hard Rock in Florida -- where she'll be hosting a "Fist Pumping Competition" at a club called Opium.

Snookers and her poof aren't the only ones making big bucks though -- we're told The Situation andPauly D make at least $7,500 an appearance ... and the ab-tastic wonder is booked every weekend for the next two months!

http://www.belmardays.com for more about the Jersey Shore 

Friday, January 01, 2010

Happy New Year





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